Music Makes the People Come Together

“Music makes the people come together” is a lyric from one of Madonna’s later dance hits. Her music certainly brought lots of people together at the Amalie Arena in Tampa last week when her Celebration Tour came to town. Madonna’s music has been the soundtrack to my life since she released her first album in 1983, so it was pure joy for me to experience this retrospective concert of her 40-year music career.

When her first album came out, I was in high school. My mom’s alcoholism was creating a lot of chaos and sadness at home during that time. Madonna’s invitation to leave your troubles behind and get up and dance was very appealing to that younger version of me. Truth be told it still is! Back then, I needed to escape my situation and Madonna’s bouncy pop music provided a way to do so. 

Madonna opened with some of the songs from that first album before pausing to explain the concept of the show. We would be taking a journey with her through the different decades of her career, but first, she wanted to introduce us to a younger version of herself. One of her dancers emerged wearing an opaque mask and clothes much like a 19-year-old Madonna would have worn in 1978. 

That was the year she arrived in New York City with just $37 in her pocket and a dream to be a professional dancer. She expressed her immense gratitude for this strong girl who kept going despite numerous rejections and many harsh life experiences. Madonna confessed that she would not be where she is today without her, and then she hugged her.

I love that she incorporated this powerful concept into the show! In my Family Constellations workshops, I often bring in someone to represent a younger version of the person I’m working with. We thank the younger version for finding a way to make it through and then show them how far they’ve come since those hardships. Understandably, we want to distance ourselves from those younger versions because they are associated with tremendous pain. However, when we acknowledge them and welcome them back into our hearts, we become whole again.  

At various times during the show, Madonna danced with younger versions of herself represented by dancers wearing costumes from her long career. Not only was it entertaining for longtime fans like me to revisit those iconic looks, but I’m guessing it was cathartic for her as well.

I was looking through the Family Constellations lens during another poignant moment of the show. Madonna sang a lesser-known song from her American Life CD called “Mother and Father.” It was a tribute to her mother who died when she was just 5 years old. During the song, she faced a photo of her mother projected on a large screen. Madonna’s adopted son, David, also lost his biological mother at a young age. He accompanied Madonna on guitar and sang with her while a photo of his biological mother appeared on another screen. It moved me to see mother and son share a moment of deep connection while honoring their biological mothers.

Of course, Madonna is best known for her dance songs, and the concert was filled with them! My favorite is “Vogue.” As soon as the base beats of that song began, tingles went through my body. It brought me back to my very first Madonna concert, the Blonde Ambition Tour. In 1990, that song and Madonna herself were at the height of their popularity. She was just a tiny blonde speck at the opposite end of the Capital Center in Washington, DC, but that didn’t matter. The vibration and the excitement of that song filled the gigantic stadium and I swear my heart beat in time with the music! It was a sensation of pure joy that I will never forget.

Throughout the concert, I reflected on the countless times Madonna’s music has evoked that feeling of pure joy in me whether I’m on the dance floor or driving my car. Or when one of her ballads helped me to cry. Or one of her anthems empowered me to make a change in my life. I felt such gratitude for this woman who has been part of my life for 40 years. It felt great to extend love and light to her and all the versions of her that helped all the versions of me through the years. I was glowing with joy and gratitude for days after the concert..  

Madonna has always been controversial, and you may not resonate with her at all. I haven’t always agreed with the decisions she has made over the years, but I have admired her courage to push the envelope and not be silenced by other people’s opinions. As someone who always strived to be a “good boy” and not make waves, she inspired me to follow my heart and stop caring so much about what others think.

There’s a great sound byte during the introduction to the show where Madonna says, “I think the most controversial thing I’ve ever done…is to stick around.” This fan is forever grateful that she has. 

Is there a singer or musical group that has provided the soundtrack to your life? Has it been a while since you listened to their music? Perhaps my story will inspire you to take a moment to listen and express gratitude for all the ways they helped you during tough times.

Maybe this story will inspire you to think about a younger version of yourself with compassion and gratitude. Acknowledge them for their perseverance and resilience, and invite them to see the life they helped create. When you welcome them home, you are empowered to connect more deeply with yourself and others, enhancing all of your relationships.

If you would like some assistance in this endeavor, consider giving yourself the gift of a private Family Constellations Session or a series of Spiritual Coaching Sessions. Both can help you welcome these seemingly separated aspects of yourself back into your heart. Please visit my website for more information or to book a session. I look forward to helping you reintegrate all the versions of you!

Until next time, keep singing and dancing to your favorite music! It truly does bring people together! 

When I am healed I am not healed alone.

Workbook Lesson 137 ~ A Course in Miracles

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